Chaos on Web Calm in Life
(From 23apr2005 to 26apr2005)
Like we do everyday , I was eating in Mess with wingies general commenting and Bhaat was going on.Suddenly, yet not in an impressive manner, Abhilash revealed that he was going to grade the wingmates based on their behaviour (Towards him).None gave this sentence any importance.
On the same day again wingies were having their dinner, I joined the conversation lately. Discusssion topic seemed to be hot and after a while I could get that Abhilash mailed his rating of friends to Yahoo! group of our wing and the point was everyone were expecting what his grade would be. Everything was normal and none took it seriously , neither me.
It was good analysis and everyone enjoing (atleast I am sure about me) his character analysis from Abhilash’s perspective……But then next mail floats to RK_CGE2002 Yahoo! Group to poll/choose your best buddy in wing. I first found it an entertaining idea but realized the possibility of some wingie may feel as left alone and some may have the feeling of “Everyone looks for me when I am gone!” which in my thought (At least something I have which is authentic: My thoughts) is not good when you call them friend and grade them. I opposed this act ……it started babbling/dispute over net. While this war was developing under confusion, fog and mix-up over net we were very calm and friendly as always towards each other.
This war ended as people fed up with flooding of mails in their mailboxes and I raised white flag.
abhilash sahoo [rk_cge] important: report on know
my comments only:plz try to give yours before u go for summer..
Abhilash Sahoo and his wing
mates..last one year
C126 Nema(Gaurav Nema)::
i like:sincere,punctual,hard working,intelligent,studious,free at heart,
i dont:not smart,unnecessary talk,relating everything to ...,going to
others room,walking,hand on my shoulder,
way of talking[haramkhor],not mature,
c127 Dharmu ::
i like:commitment for a work,special appearances and gestures,helping
liking for hindi songs,
i dont:extra sleep,kanjusiiiiii,using galiyan always,high volume songs
at night,useless bhatt
c 128 Neeraj ::
i like:free in heart,very helpful,kind,simple,no bad points like above
mentioned for nema and dharmu,simple
hug,his love for me,
i dont:extra sleep,daru,quick change of mind,plz take care of
c 130 N2(Its Me!) ::
i like:his guts,devotion for robotics,realisation of practicalthings,clear stomach,free and frank,help ful and
hard labour,no oad condion,commitment
i dont:his comments everytime[but like some times],bhaatt,doesnt
change his convention,galiyan,never
appreciates hindi culture or movie or songs although sometime they r
good,i dont know why he thinks so,
c 131 GP(Gaurav P)::
i like::his fundas,simple,kind,cooooooooollllllllllllllll,
i dont:extra sleep,extra gaming,extra cool
C 132 Nihar DA::
i like :his thouhts match with me,no bad points like nema or
i dont:extra gaming,short temper,mind changing time to time.
C 133 lamba (Abhishek Prakash)::
i like:his attitude he shows towards others,planning,mature,hard
working,love for hindi
movies,caring,smile,guts,high tempo and +ve attitude
i dont:his extra privacy,his attitude he hides,not
C 134 mathur(Apurva M)::[inactive]
i like:good,just as a friend ..not much to say
i dont:his galiyan,pjs
better improve next time and for the last time..
hi all ,
...............NO COMMENTS ......
direct dil se .....
WELL ITS GOOD TO KNOW THE OPINION OF PEOPLE .. THE WAY
THEY THINK FOR ME .....
BYE AND SAME TO U ...FOR
Abhilash’s Next mail [rk_cge] New poll for rk_cge
Enter your vote today! A new poll has been created for the
heyheyhey.........wats this?!!! polling for
I am not going to rate any of my friend in this pole and I STRONGLY OPPOSE THIS ACT. For me all of you have 10/10, cause you are my friend not my employee who need to be considered for promotion or a subject who is under testing and experimenting for my R&D cell.
Dharmu’s Reply on My Reply
i am with naishe me too not going for any such poll
as it will hurt ... so me too not interested in
polling such a pol ....
its better be the way the u like them and and rate
Abhilash’s Reply on My Reply
i am sorry for the polling
i have deleted it..
but regarding my opinions and points etc Mr Nishant
make sure that we r really friends live in same wing
u have mentioned it quite a few time that we r
friends.and there is nothing wrong in it pointing out
someones good and bad points.for example say thr is a
lots of difference between my two friends avik sarkar
and neeraj.i cant give any comments on avik but i can
on neeraj.the points r just for fun..after all we stay
in live like a family in a house.u r the first person
to know about me every morning.
and u buddy Mr nishant after all my request u take it
seriously..but dont forget u did and do the work of
"commenting" for most of the time.i dont like it and
i hope many other also dont like it.and that time u
Nishant’s reply on Above Message
I dont want a altercation on this point but there is something I wud like to "say".
I hope U understand the difference between "Verbal commenting" and "Declaration" ,moreover all my "Lecture" on opening
A best cause against polling is it may lead to misconception for a emotional person when he find his best friend like a wingmate most whom he hate most.Dont u think that?.....Hard to believe but think it -not as u r in a debate but as a doctor's suggetion bitter but good for u no good for doctor.
All I said was not hurt u but to make u aware of the fact when things get more than the sweet they get sour.
ABHISHEK PRAKASH [rk_cge] guys whats this happening!!!!!!!!!11
what the hell is happening in the group messages...i was sad
yesterday that i was not getting the messages but today i am
disappointed that even after enjoying 1 year together we hav such
misunderstandings....i just want to tell you all that CGE is the best
wing of the rk hall and we hav to maintain this profile...we have
always been together and we shud be same...whatever abhilash did was
just his way of making us know ourselves better..ya that "poll 4 best
friend" idea may be bad but remember he was the 1 who took all the
pains of pointing all the good and bad points about all of us...and i
do feel that he really never meant to hurt any1...neways, its hard
time that we get back together and work for the ultimate vision and
mission that we have in life.....
and ya thnx to n2 that he raised that point....i think this issue is
solved now and for ever...so please do not stretch it far too long...
dharmu bhaiya ka bahut bahut dhanyawad ki unhone hume n2 ki point
system wali mail mugne ki salah di...thnx be...and ya .. i luv u alll
so lets njoy
My(Nishant’s) Reply on Above Mail
yup!!let end this argument.yet I found something very
hi fi in Abhisheks mail.Points are
1. just want to tell you all that CGE is the best wing of the rk hall(WHO TOLD U?) and we hav to maintain this profile(What?)
2.pains of pointing all the good and bad points about all of us(Too exaggeration Some times its FUN.Isnt it?)
3.we get back together and work for the ultimate vision and mission that we have in life.....(WOhaaw I never knew this chaos will bring such a gr8 opportunity)
4. Do not panic Its just my general commenting phenomenon that automatically wrote this mail without filtering the material from my Brain
Nihar’s Reply on Above Reply
Abhisheks Reply on My Reply
hi n2 plus rest of u....
ya some points may be hi fi in the mail..but dont thnk of cge as a low profile wing...
chalo all d best
Gaurav P’s reply on the whole event (however the War had been over weeks ago!!! lol)
I am making all the rk_cge mails to be automatically directed to trash.
My(Nishant) Reply on Above Mail
cool dowm Mr.Cool U responded too late War is over plz calm down dont get panic everything is fine now
Total mail transferred = 13 in three days
END OF THE STORY